What is Love…

My whole life I’ve heard this word “love”… endless music and art created around it… but no one really understands it.

Let’s say you have a relationship… a romantic relationship… or a marriage whatever… Please… tell me… honestly… what do you have?

Do you have somebody constantly filling your holes then being asked for the same thing? Do you have a contract… a paper… that says you own that person? Like an apartment or a car? Do you have a ring on your finger that shows to the world that you’re entrapped? Do you have a provider? A helper with the bills? Do you have company when you’re feeling lonely? Do you have sex without the efforts of seduction or without payment? Do you have the need of control fulfilled… like having a dog? What do you have, really?!?? What?!?!

Listen… if you entered in a relationship… with the hope for love… forget about it… It will never happen. So many do that mistake… I did that too. It doesn’t work that way. You can have countless relationships… but you’ll never find love like that.

Because love doesn’t live in a box. A relationship is like a box. It has a starting and an ending. It has clear rules and guidelines. How can two individuals… two consciousnesses grow like that… in that box?!? Ha?!? You keep holding to that box… you put so much there over time… until it gets too heavy to lift it… You dissolve yourself there and force the other person to do the same. So you’re like a prisoner and a guardian in the same time. Love has nothing to do with that. Nothing. Love lives in freedom first of all…

Love happens to you… when your heart and mind and soul are ready… You can’t find love… It finds you. And when it does… it’s absolutely impossible to squeeze it in a “relationship”… it grows… constantly… into a connection… an absolutely unique connection like DNA in a creature…

You change and grow with it… it’s a perfect alignment… a synchronicity… You can’t define it… you can’t understand it… or alter it… or even slightly touch it… It’s just there… like we are.

Nowadays… on Tinder… people were looking for “that connection”… 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️😂🤣 I was telling them… “if you’re looking for a connection… just stick two fingers into an electrical outlet… 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣”

You can’t find it. It finds you. So… please leave me tf alone with your superficial theories about what love is… you keep your relationships… your boxes… and stay there… This way you’re safe… and love will never find you…

Keep your men/women on the watch… tie them to the refrigerator or whatever… pour your energy into black holes and hope for the best. And call it love… I don’t care anymore… 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤣 or connections… or whatever…

God is Love… that’s why no one understands neither love… nor God.